Actually thats my perfect example. It still does not show what the koran exactly said, its about the principle.
Anyway, even IF the koran would say something like that, i would expect humans to be more 'wise' then just to follow the rules of an old book all the way. Although i can
imagine that as a believer you want to be as close to your religion. I think someone is a true believer only when he does that when he truely believes what he is doing, but also has the wider view of mind to accept the fact that not everybody believes what he/she does.
The latter one is explained as "egocentrism" , a lot used term with children aging 0-6 especially. The older they get, the less egocentrism they have (the most beautiful example is that a child of 4 expects that a person on the other side of the line of a phonecall can SEE what he/she sees...)...
So in short, free your mind , live the day!
(same for me, this is just a debate and i don't want to offend anyone at all either)