this forums are generally about bots, virtual players for games
1. forums are not dead, just not much is going around
2. current plan of releasing bots or projescts depend on the project starter - you better contact with the guy that is the most active in specific project
3. c/c++ are majority, some people write small proejcts in Small/Pawnl language (for AMX Mod and AMX Mod X) , other write in delphi some tools, there are links to one or two projects in Java and Perl with PHP
4. first look around, especially in sticky topics, you may want also look around another forums