Ok, this would probably solve all your worst forum nightmares.... I went to this page. Tell people to download this, stick it in their amxmodx plugins folder. and of course edit plugins.ini in the config folder.
http://forums.alliedmods.net/showthread.php?p=444435
inserted the plugin which does the podmenu. It worked first go around.
Problem solved, hope I never have to come to this forum again.