Just a tip... but if it's forcing your mods to load the grave_bot.dll instead of the mod.dll... try renaming the mod.dll files to "grave_bot.dll" so that when each mod loads the "grave_bot.dll" they are still loading the appropriate mod.dll information. I'm just a novice at this, so this was what seemed like an obvious fix to me... so my apologies if I sound stupid

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