1) Either you log in as "administrator" and you modify the file (upload it again) or you login as "member" and you select "edit file" (or modify file, what applies) - same thing.
2) You need an account on the BU server. Lemme check if you have one already... looks not. I'll create user "austin" for you. You also need a CVS client. I suggest you to get TortoiseCVS. It's free, open source and integrated with Windows explorer. And once you have a CVS client and a shell account you can create the new CVS module yourself (see 3. below)
3) with TortoiseCVS right-click on the folder where your sources are, choose CVS->Make new module, then in the new window in the "CVSROOT" field enter exactly:
:sserver:austin@bots-united.com:/home/cvsroot
the rest fills in automatically. Make sure the name of the new module doesn't have any special characters such as spaces and preferably put it all in lowercase. Hit OK, and the module will be created. Once its done, all you need to do is a "CVS commit" on the same folder to commit (i.e upload) your first changes to the new module. This will actually upload the source.
4) periodically check the module history... changes are automatically handled & merged altogether by the system
5) ask your wife
